Lus xaiv:
Ntau tus menyuam nyiamplush cov khoom ua si. Lawv tuav lawv thaum lawv pw, noj mov lossis tawm mus ua si. Ntau tus niam txiv tsis meej pem txog qhov no. Lawv kwv yees tias qhov no yog vim lawv cov menyuam tsis sib raug zoo thiab tsis tuaj yeem nrog lwm tus menyuam. Lawv txhawj xeeb tias qhov no yog qhov qhia txog lawv cov menyuam tsis muaj kev ruaj ntseg. Lawv txawm xav tias yog lawv tsis cuam tshuam rau lub sijhawm, nws yooj yim rau lawv cov menyuam muaj teeb meem ntawm tus kheej. Lawv txawm sim txhua txoj hauv kev kom lawv cov menyuam "tso tawm" cov khoom ua si plush no.
Qhov tseeb txhais:
Ntau tus menyuam nyiam cov khoom ua si plush. Lawv tuav lawv thaum lawv pw, noj mov lossis tawm mus ua si. Ntau tus niam txiv tsis meej pem txog qhov no. Lawv kwv yees tias qhov no yog vim lawv cov menyuam tsis sib raug zoo thiab tsis tuaj yeem nrog lwm tus menyuam. Lawv txhawj xeeb tias qhov no yog qhov qhia txog lawv cov menyuam tsis muaj kev ruaj ntseg. Lawv txawm xav tias yog lawv tsis cuam tshuam rau lub sijhawm, nws yooj yim rau lawv cov menyuam muaj teeb meem ntawm tus kheej. Lawv txawm sim txhua txoj hauv kev kom lawv cov menyuam "tso tawm" cov khoom ua si plush no. Cov kev txhawj xeeb thiab kev ntxhov siab no puas tsim nyog? Peb yuav tsum saib cov menyuam yaus li cas ntawm cov khoom ua si menyuam roj hmab?
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"Imaginary Partners" nrog me nyuam mus rau kev ywj pheej
Kev nyiam cov khoom ua si plush tsis muaj dab tsi ua nrog kev nkag siab ntawm kev ruaj ntseg
Qhov tseeb, qhov tshwm sim no hu ua "mob khoom txuas" los ntawm cov kws kho mob hlwb, thiab nws yog qhov kev hloov pauv ntawm cov menyuam yaus txoj kev loj hlob ywj pheej. Kev kho cov khoom ua si plush ua lawv tus kheej "cov neeg koom tes xav" tuaj yeem pab lawv tshem tawm kev ntxhov siab hauv qee qhov xwm txheej thiab ib puag ncig, thiab cov niam txiv tsis tas yuav txhawj xeeb ntau dhau.
Psychologist Donald Wincott tau ua thawj txoj kev tshawb fawb txog qhov tshwm sim ntawm cov menyuam yaus qhov kev sib txuas rau qee yam khoom ua si muag lossis khoom, thiab xaus lus tias qhov tshwm sim no muaj qhov tseem ceeb ntawm cov menyuam yaus txoj kev loj hlob ntawm lub hlwb. Nws hu ua cov khoom muag uas cov menyuam yaus txuas nrog rau "cov khoom hloov pauv". Thaum cov me nyuam loj hlob tuaj, lawv dhau los ua neeg ywj pheej ntawm kev puas siab puas ntsws, thiab lawv yuav hloov qhov kev xav no mus rau lwm qhov chaw.
Hauv kev tshawb fawb ntawm Richard Passman, tus kws kho mob hlwb menyuam yaus ntawm University of Wisconsin, thiab lwm tus, nws kuj tau pom tias qhov "mos khoom txuas" qhov tshwm sim nyuaj yog tshwm sim thoob plaws ntiaj teb. Piv txwv li, hauv Tebchaws Meskas, Netherlands, New Zealand thiab lwm lub tebchaws, qhov feem pua ntawm cov menyuam yaus nrog "cov khoom muag muag" complex tau mus txog 3/5, thaum cov ntaub ntawv hauv Kaus Lim Qab Teb yog 1/5. Nws tuaj yeem pom tias nws yog ib txwm muaj rau qee cov menyuam yaus yuav tsum tau txuas nrog cov khoom ua si plush lossis khoom muag muag. Thiab nws tsim nyog sau cia tias feem ntau ntawm cov menyuam yaus uas nyiam cov khoom ua si plush tsis muaj kev ruaj ntseg thiab muaj kev sib raug zoo ntawm niam txiv-me nyuam nrog lawv niam lawv txiv.
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Cov neeg laus kuj muaj qhov nyuaj ntawm cov khoom muag muag
Nws yog qhov nkag siab los txo kev ntxhov siab kom tsim nyog
Raws li cov menyuam yaus uas vam khom heevplush cov khoom ua si, cov niam txiv yuav tsum coj li cas kom raug? Nov yog peb lub tswv yim:
Ua ntej, tsis txhob yuam lawv tawm. Koj tuaj yeem hloov lawv cov xim ntawm cov khoom ua si tshwj xeeb los ntawm kev hloov pauv uas lwm tus menyuam nyiam; thib ob, txhawb nqa lwm yam kev nyiam ntawm cov menyuam yaus thiab coj lawv los tshawb txog yam tshiab, kom maj mam txo lawv cov khoom ua si plush; thib peb, txhawb kom cov me nyuam hais lus zoo ib ntus rau tej yam uas lawv nyiam, kom cov me nyuam paub tias muaj ntau yam ntxim nyiam tos lawv.
Qhov tseeb, ntxiv rau cov menyuam yaus, ntau tus neeg laus kuj muaj qee yam txuas rau cov khoom muag. Piv txwv li, lawv nyiam muab cov khoom ua si plush ua khoom plig, thiab lawv tsis muaj kev tiv thaiv rau cov menyuam roj hmab ntxim hlub hauv lub tshuab claw; Piv txwv li, qee cov neeg nyiam pajamas plush ntau dua li lwm cov ntaub ntawv thiab ntaub. Lawv xaiv plush styles rau cushions ntawm lub rooj zaum, pam vov rau hauv pem teb, thiab txawm hairpins thiab xov tooj ntawm tes ... vim hais tias cov khoom no yuav ua rau tib neeg xav tias so thiab xis nyob, thiab txawm ua tiav cov nyhuv ntawm decompression.
Hauv cov ntsiab lus, kuv vam tias cov niam txiv tuaj yeem pom lawv cov menyuam txoj kev vam khom rau cov khoom ua si plush, tsis txhob txhawj ntau dhau, thiab tsis txhob yuam lawv tawm. Maj mam coj lawv thiab pab lawv cov menyuam loj hlob hauv txoj kev zoo tshaj plaws. Rau cov neeg laus, tsuav nws tsis dhau thiab tsis cuam tshuam rau lub neej ib txwm, siv qee yam khoom siv niaj hnub los ua kom koj tus kheej xis nyob thiab so kuj yog ib txoj hauv kev zoo rau decompress.
Lub sij hawm xa tuaj: Mar-13-2025